About
True Connection
Dating & Relationship Coaching in Asheville
Dating can feel confusing and exhausting, especially when patterns keep repeating or emotional connection feels out of reach.
Amber Lavin is a relationship coach specializing in helping conscious singles break free from unfulfilling cycles and attract secure, authentic love through mindfulness, embodiment, and authentic communication.
You’ve done the work.
Therapy, journaling, healing…
So why does dating still feel so frustrating?
You’re emotionally self-aware. You’ve read the books. You’re not here for casual flings or fixing another avoidant partner. When it comes to love, you keep finding yourself stuck—attracting partners who can’t meet you, or not finding any at all. You want connection, not confusion. Depth, not drama.
If this sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.
Dating With Depth Is Possible
Intentional Dating
Learn how to date with clarity, emotional honesty, and a secure mindset.
Embodiment & Presence
Reconnect with your body’s wisdom and shift out of anxious or avoidant patterns.
Authentic Self-Expression
Show up as your full self and attract relationships that truly align
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Support for Every Stage of the Journey
True Connection Options
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Englighting events such as singles events, women’s circles and support groups and meditation classes
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Single Session – $120: A focused breakthrough session to shift your dating energy.
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4-Week Package: Build emotional clarity, upgrade your dating habits, and move with intention.
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3-Month Mentorship: Deep transformation for lasting relational change.
Qualifications & Professional Background
My approach to relationship coaching combines professional training with years of experience supporting people in creating healthier, more authentic connections. Rather than relying on one method, I integrate evidence-based practices, mindfulness, embodiment, and compassionate communication to help clients build secure relationships with themselves and others.
Education & Professional Experience
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Background in Education & Social Services
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Relationship & Dating Coach
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Workshop Facilitator
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Support Group Facilitator
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Founder of Mindful Mix & Mingle, a community that creates intentional opportunities for authentic connection
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Facilitator of attachment based support group
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Facilitator of speed dating events designed to help people connect with greater presence and intention
Professional Training
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Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) Training
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Motivational Interviewing Training
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Attachment Theory Training
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Embodiment Training
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200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT-200) Training
My Approach
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My work is rooted in the understanding that lasting change happens through both insight and lived experience. I draw from mindfulness, attachment theory, somatic awareness, and compassionate communication to help clients move from old relationship patterns toward greater security, authenticity, and connection.
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Whether I'm working one-on-one with coaching clients, leading workshops, facilitating support groups, or creating mindful dating experiences, my goal is to help people feel more grounded, connected, and confident in building healthy, lasting relationships.
"Amber has a well of wisdom and a light about her that makes you feel seen and understood. She’s kind, gentle, affirming and offers so much healing when navigating dating and relationships. I love her meditations, and strong call to work with your inner child to integrate tools and authenticity when forming bonds with others. She’s taught me that the most important relationship I have is the one I have with myself. I highly recommend her to anyone experience heartbreak or that needs to be held accountable in their growth."
"I started working with Amber after hitting a wall with dating. I'd done therapy for years but kept attracting the same unavailable partners, and I was exhausted.
Amber was exceptional. She helped me see patterns I couldn't see myself, even though I thought I was pretty self-aware. What really stood out was how she combined practical dating advice with deeper work around attachment and self-trust.
I appreciated that she never made me feel judged for my struggles. Instead, she created a really safe space to look at some uncomfortable truths about how I was showing up in relationships. The embodiment exercises were new to me but turned out to be incredibly helpful for noticing when I was falling into old patterns."
"Amber is passionate about helping people reach their full dating potential. She approaches everything she does with kindness, compassion and an open heart. She is a gem."
Michele Louzon
"Amber is amazing. Her kind nature immediately made me feel welcome and comfortable. I learned more in her six week course years than I have in years of other therapy modes. She always follows up, sends additional materials, and is open to talking when needed. I have only super positive things to say above her. She was an absolute blessing to me and I will continue to see her as long as she will have me "